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I’m a mom, I think by now that goes without saying. I am also married to a wonderful man, in fact, we just celebrated 6 years of wedded bliss this past Sunday. We love to entertain and host parties, which usually consists of our married friends, not all of them have children, but most do have significant others. I do miss one thing about these parties/get-togethers… my single friends.
Yes, I am 34, married and I have single friends. Some of them over 10 years younger than me! Why are my single friends so important to me? Let me explain. As a mom, sometimes you get a little relaxed. You know what I’m talking about, maybe you’ve worn your hair back in a ponytail for over a week, the t-shirt stained with baby spit-up seems to be your daily uniform and your average conversation always seems to come full circle back to your kids. I live in that reality everyday, and while I love my children and my family, it can get a bit, well… monotonous.
Now, my single friends on the other hand are on the prowl. They keep their bodies tight, their clothes oh so fashionable, and they could care less about children. They don’t truly care whether or not little C is behind in his speech, or if Big E is doing well on his transition between elementary school and Junior High. And to be honest, I find it very refreshing and humbling to be around people like that. I so enjoy my nights out with my single friends. It keeps me on my toes, I make sure I have the trendy outfit so I don’t stick out like a sore thumb and scream that I’m the married mom of the group. It makes me remember to wax my eyebrows so that it doesn’t look like I have those black fuzzy caterpillars growing above my eyes, to cover the gray hair that started back when I was 25 and to dust off the cute high heels I once used to wear to show off my butt. In a nutshell, it keep me on my game, which essentially keeps my husband a happy man.
I think every mom needs single friends. And I’m not talking about the single, stay home and love their cats single girl, I’m talking about the single, hot, friday club going friends that keep you young and in-tune of what is cool. I am pretty hip to begin with, and maintaining my friendship with my single friends keeps me there. Just because they’re single doesn’t mean when you go out with them you need to be worried about other guys. A good friend knows your taken and wont make you feel uncomfortable. I have the best single friends in the world, and to be honest… I just might be sad when they get snatched up and hitched!
So lets all raise a martini glass and say cheers to those friends that are NOT plus one.
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