Overcoming a Dentist Phobia

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Dentophoboia: Fear of dentists and dental procedures. Does that describe you? It sure describes me. Like many, I avoided the dentist for years and years because of awful experiences I’d had  in my past. Just thinking about the dentist makes me cringe a little. It’s so bad, I can’t stand nail files because the grinding sound and feel reminds me of having my teeth drilled.

Yes, that’s right–no manicures and pedicures for me. Hate them!

Photo by D Sharon Pruitt

Of course I floss every day

I have terrible teeth, which makes the whole thing that much worse, because when I do go I invariably need some work done. And yet, on Tuesday I’m going to go in and have a crown put on without being given an elephant tranquilizer first. Believe me, nobody’s more surprised than I am. I might even go so far as to say that I think I’m overcoming my dentist phobia. I’m not going to call myself cured yet, but I’m living in a peaceful cohabitation with the idea of dentistry and my teeth and I’m not freaking out, so I’d call that a  plus. Here are some tips:

  • Find a dentist you trust. I know that sounds like a no-brainer, but ask yourself honestly, do you really trust your dentist to not traumatize you? If you can’t say yes to that, then you need to either have a heart to heart with your dentist or find a new one.
  • Schedule a consult just to chat. This is just a talking appointment, where the dentist will take x-rays (if you need them) and will just chat about what needs to be done to your mouth. Does it look like you need work? Are you just due for cleanings? Here’s where you will be honest with your dentist about how much you hate dental work. Share some of the reasons why you’ve been fearful in the past and ask about ways to avoid problems.
  • Newer isn’t always better–it’s all about the doctor. There are all kinds of technological advances in dentistry these days, but just because a dentist uses them that doesn’t mean they’re a good dentist or that the newer technology is better. I made this mistake when we first moved to the area. Now my dentist is as old-school as ever (well, not ever, I mean he does believe in pain control) but he does great work and I’m not afraid of him.  Your relationship with the dentist is more important than any type of technique or technology.
  • Schedule a double-appointment slot. When you do have a cleaning or have work done, schedule a double appointment slot, or the first one in the morning or right after lunch, so that nobody (particularly you) feels rushed. The key to overcoming a fear is taking your time–that’s as much time as YOU, the patient, need for the procedure, not the dentist or hygienist. Schedule in advance to make sure that time is on the books before you get in the chair.
  • Ask the dentist to explain each procedure to you. And I mean explain down to the detail–ask the dentist to go over exactly what he or she is going to do in as much detail as you need before things get started, and then ask the dentist to let you know when he or she is doing each thing. Think of it as a full explanation and then an “are we there yet?” running commentary.
  • Establish a “Stop” signal. This one is a biggie for me–I have a small mouth and a quick gag reflex, and I always feel out of control and overwhelmed when the dentist gets going because I feel panicky if I need to swallow or something. My dentist and I have worked out that when I hold up my hand, he pulls everything out and I can spit, swallow, rest my jaw, or just pysch myself back up again. If he’s in the middle of something where he can’t stop, then I’ll know because he told me about it in the previous suggestion and he’ll stop as soon as he can. This is a big part of the trust factor and also where it’s essential to schedule extra time if you think you are going to take twice as long as a person normally does.
  • Better living through chemistry. Your dentist can prescribe a light sedative for you to take before you have any work done–be sure to bring a driver.
  • Crank up the tunes. I didn’t think that an iPod would be enough to overpower the sound of the drill, but it actually does, or close enough to it so that I can…
  • Find your Happy Place. I’ve never been one for meditation, but some deep breaths and finding your happy place really do help a lot in the dentist chair.
  • Reward yourself. Once you’ve made it through your procedure or cleaning, it’s definitely time to reward yourself. Go get a manicure, or buy a caramel apple, or whatever floats your boat. Anything to pat yourself on the back for a job well done!

Oh, and wish me luck on this crown thing. I cracked this tooth and I’m hoping I can just get a crown without a root canal, so send some good ju-ju my way!

The Scrivener

Silent Sundays

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I Love My Baby Sister

Green Valley Lake, CA

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One of the things I love most about Southern California is being near both the beach and the mountains. You can actually go surfing in the morning, hop in your car, and hit the ski slopes all before tea. There are many little mountain communities, and I’d like to tell you about one of them: Green Valley Lake.

Train Guy and Mouse love hiking year-round

At 7,000 feet, Green Valley Lake is the highest community in the San Bernadino Mountains. Never heard of it? Neither had I until I met Train Guy and learned that his grandparents own a cabin there. Green Valley Lake is roughly in between Big Bear and Lake Arrowhead and is tucked away into a small, private, not-crowded area. There’s a nine-acre manmade lake for fishing, boating and swimming, a small general store, a couple of little shops and real estate agencies, and the Malt Shoppe restaurant.

Green Valley Lake is what you think of when you think of “mountain getaway.” The area is clear and peaceful, residents are friendly, and there’s no traffic or commercialism to spoil your stay. It’s within easy driving distance of the more touristy Lake Arrowhead and Big Bear, but if you’re looking for a nice place to relax and forget about the city, Green Valley Lake is the perfect destination.

Because it’s so high on the mountain, if there’s snow to be had, there’s snow in Green Valley Lake. I absolutely love snow now that I don’t have to live in it. There’s nothing more fun on a cold winter day than sledding and having a snowball fight and then curling up with some fresh hot cocoa in front of the roaring fireplace. I love to check the Green Valley Lake webcams before we come up to see what the snow level looks like. You can cross-country ski right there in GVL, but if downhill skiing or snowboarding is your thing, it’s also super-close to Snow Valley and the other mountain ski resorts.

Sledding on the BIG hill

We’re so lucky to have a cabin available for us, but GVL is the perfect place to rent a cabin with family or friends and just have a weekend away. It’s a particular treat for the Southern California kids who don’t normally get to play in the snow. At less than 2 hours away from LA and Orange County, it’s difficult to believe that such a nice little community exists right under our very noses.

Tonight we ate dinner at the Malt Shoppe (yep, we’re up here right now!) and what a cute little place that is. More than just malts and burgers, the Malt Shoppe features full meal menus. For dinner, I had a delicious filet mignon with veggies, fries, and shrimp bisque (which Mouse loved). It was a very pleasant surprise to have this nice place to eat right here at the top of the mountain.

Green Valley Lake is the perfect place to get away from it all, relax, and unwind.

The Scrivener

Happy Birthday, Mom!

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Call me sappy but today is my mom’s birthday and this one is for her.

Happy Birthday, Mom!

The Librarian's Mom

I love you, Mom!

For all the times you wiped my tears,
For letting go despite your fears,
For giving me self-confidence,
And teaching me some common sense,
For gifting me such a wonderful start,
I thank you, Mom, with all my heart .

You showed me what I needed in life
To be a strong woman and a good wife.
My sense of humor I gained from you.
It still helps me when I’m feeling blue.

Now I am a mother, I walk in your shoes.
You set the example, I know what to do!

Have a fabulous birthday, dear Mother, I’ll be thinking of you!
With love from your favorite (c’mon, isn’t this true?).

– Angel

Old Mom, Young Mom

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There are a lot of discussions I’ve either read or listened in on whether or not its better to be an older mom or a younger mom.  I have had the pleasure of being both!  I’m going to weigh in on the pros (and cons) of each.

Being a young mom

As a young mom you don’t really know the difference, you just “go with it”.  I was lucky to have been around babies my whole life, so it felt really comfortable when I had a baby.  I don’t think as a young mom you really ponder the effects that disposable diapers have on the environment, you don’t over think every little action that happens, you just parent.  As a young mom I was able to take Big E to the park and actually PLAY with him.  And I’m not talking about pushing him on the swing, I’m talking about running around, climbing slides and playing tag.  My energy levels were high.  I also loved taking him to school and being the hip, young mom.

Being an older mom

As an older mom I know the difference and really care about breast feeding, organic clothing and the impact disposable diapers have on the environment.  I have such a great sense of who I am as a person and know firmly the kind of person I want to raise.  I have strong opinions about parenting.  I am able to afford more luxuries for my child as an older mom and provide more now that I am more stable in my life.

They both sound great right?  Well they both aren’t always what they’re cracked up to be.  For instance, when I was a younger mom, and since I’ve always looked young for my age people would always ask if Big E was my little brother.  Or give me a ridiculous look of shock and disapproval that I was married with a child at 22.  Don’t get me started how his teachers would act like they knew better for my son just because they had 20 years on me.  Another big con is that I know I missed out on a lot of things that people do in their 20’s like traveling and focusing on a career.  At the time I didn’t feel like I was missing out, but looking back now I definitely see it.  As an older mom I’m having such a hard time with energy.  When I take Little C to the park he’s lucky if I push him on the swing.  There’s no way I feel like running around a playground for an hour, 10 minutes maybe, but a whole hour?  No way.  I’m also starting to feel aches and pains.  I can’t pick up Little C because I get terrible lower back pain.  I’m just so tired these days.

If I had to do it all over again which one would I chose?  I’d probably have chosen to be done having children before I was 30.  I feel like there is something to our nature and our bodies being ready when we’re younger.

My mom always said children are for the youth… I think she’s right!

The Photo Addict

American Idol: Performance Recap

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From The Scrivener’s point of view…

Lee kicked off the night with The Boxer. He actually seemed pretty relaxed to me when he took the stage, but I watching him in person, I was struck by how stiff and uncomfortable he still looks onstage. I think you don’t see it as much on tv, but it was like he was trying to make himself very skinny and small on this whole stage. He was a bit pitchy in places–you know, I hate that word and they use it all the time. I mean can’t we just say “off-key”? I suppose there’s a difference between “pitchy” and “off-key” but either way, it’s that “not quite right” feel. Anyway, I was surprised watching it at home because he actually sounded a lot better in the theater than he did at home. Sitting in the audience, we couldn’t see the judge’s faces, so it was actually pretty hard to hear what the judges were saying, but it was very clear that they shook his confidence with their remarks.

Crystal then came out and sang Me and Bobby McGee, and I was thrilled about her choice. Her performance set her tone for the night and let me tell you, she was on fire. She hit every note perfectly. In fact, with the noise level of the equipment, she left our ears ringing after every song. Her confidence level was perfect–she went out and sang like she’d already won. One thing that surprised me was that she’s much shorter and smaller than I thought she was. Ryan Seacrest, however, is exactly as small and short as I thought he was. I was pleased he was on his best behavior, although the worst of him really only comes out at the results show.

Lee came back out for his second performance of Everybody Hurts. While I thought that this was a good choice for him, he looked shaken to me, like he hadn’t quite recovered from the first performance. It had to be extremely stressful for them because he finished performing, ran offstage, changed, and was in front of the microphone again in minutes. Once again, for this song the stage seemed too big for him. I thought he really stepped up his game vocally with this performance, but again it wasn’t perfect. Song 2 was better than Song 1, but his Song 2 wasn’t better than Crystal’s Song 1.

When Seacrest announced that Crystal would be singing Black Velvet I was a bit worried because that song is so overdone. You hear it at every karaoke bar and probably every third or fourth person auditioning for American Idol. Still, Crystal managed to hit it out of the ballpark again. Having her descend the staircase was a bad idea, really. She didn’t look comfortable doing it, and she looked like she thought she was going to fall any second now. I think the staircase descent can be a great dramatic move for, like, Scarlett O’Hara, but not for Crystal. Despite that, she did a fabulous job and left our ears ringing again.

When Lee dashed on for his third song, I felt kinda bad that he was on the same show as Crystal tonight. Had he been up against anyone else he would have really stood out, but Crystal was kicking his butt all the way around. We were very confused when he started singing Beautiful Day, since we were all expecting some awkward and forgettable written-for-American-Idol swan song like they’ve done in previous seasons. It occurred to me walking out of the theater that they probably picked final songs that people would really want to buy should the contestant win. I mean seriously, can you imagine either Lee or Crystal up there singing “A Moment Like This”??? Or that horrible No Boundaries song from last year? Anyway, glad to hear Lee doing something different, but the song was way too big for him. Well no, I won’t say that. I’ll say the performance was way too big for him. The whole stage and backup music and singers and the whole ensemble, it’s like Lee just got swallowed up.  I think this was the one performance that was the most different in person than on tv. In person you really couldn’t understand what he was singing, but on tv they toned down the background music a ton. I guess that can cut both ways, as in Lee’s second song, which sounded a lot more pitchy on tv with the background music toned down. I didn’t think it was a strong finish for Lee at all. He looked exhausted before he even started singing, and utterly defeated afterwards. Yikes.

Crystal’s final song was Up to the Mountain, which I loved. I thought she was uh-may-zing performing this one. Absolutely. I’d buy that record. I’ll probably buy whatever record she makes. Once again, she sang like she’d already won and the effect was chilling. The volume level was so high, however, many people actually had their fingers in their ears, and honestly mine are still ringing. Thank goodness she was pitch-perfect on all of those notes. I was very glad they got her off the staircase too. She did a fabulous job.

My vote for American Idol goes to Crystal, but I don’t think she’s actually going to win. I think the Lee fans will overlook tonight’s weak parts and come out in droves. But it may even be better for Crystal if she doesn’t win, since she’ll have more control over who she signs with for her future albums. Either way, both are going to be extremely successful.

It’s probably not too early to put your name on the waiting list for American Idol tickets next season!

Adding: Congratulations to our winner, Lee!

Read about our audience experience and check out our photos of AI alums we saw.

American Idol: The Experience

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A joint post from The Scrivener and The Librarian answering that burning question, what was it like to be in the audience???

The Scriv and the Librarian


What a day! Seeing American Idol in person was a real treat. Because it was the final performance show, it was held in the Nokia Theater in LA instead of the normal studio. Once we were allowed into the seating area, my jaw hit the floor. The entire theater was done up top to bottom in all of the American Idol paraphernalia, from those steel beams to the rotating globe things. The set was huge. And you know how things always look larger on tv than they do in person? Well, everything looked much larger in person. I know the theater is bigger than the studio but the set was the same and was it ever impressive. For me, it was the first indicator of what a true franchise American Idol has become.


Okay, Scriv stole my observation about the AI venue seeming larger in person. I’ll forgive her because I botched up a photo of her and Allison Iraheta earlier in the day. Sorry, Scriv! We actually arrived way early expecting to stand in line all day waiting to exchange vouchers for tickets. With the exception of our friend Kelly, who arrived an hour earlier to hold a place in line (thanks Kelly!) we hardly stood in line at all. We got our tix around noon and then had four hours to kick it.  Had a leisurely lunch and a few drinks at Yard House. Plenty of time to make our tacky signs. Then we tooled around in front of the Nokia Theater for a while where we spent our time spotting and taking pics of AI alumni. We saw Big Mike, Brook White, Justin Guarini (Does anyone still remember him from season one? Don’t think he’s done much since!),  and Elliott Yamin. Check out our photos. But I digress from the audience question. It was FANTASTIC being in the audience especially since I scored an aisle seat and had an excellent view. There was no mistaking what show we were watching as the branding was way over the top. Oh and Scott McIntyre walked right by me.


There was an audience warm-up person, but honestly I expected more direction. We kind of sat there on our own and then like 3 minutes before the show went live, the warm-up guy, Cory, was like “Hi everyone! I’m the warm-up guy and we’re going live in 3 minutes!” Hunh? He got us on our feet clapping and cheering, and then gave the world’s most obvious direction–“Ryan Seacrest is going to walk down the stairs and say ‘This is American Idol’ and then the camera will pan to the audience and you should clap.”

Really? Is that when we’re supposed to clap? Phew–I almost did it wrong! (Me, too, I was so lost at this point!  – Librarian)

MY sign is better

After everything we’d gone through to get in there, I was shocked to see there were 3 empty seats in front of us. At the very beginning, those seats were filled by a couple of Idol technical crew who sat down at the last second. Then sadly they were filled by a woman and these two rather obnoxious little girls who spent the entire taping casing the joint for better seats, blocking our view, and running around trying to get celebrity autographs.

Other than that, our seats were awesome. We were in row T, which was 20 rows up from the front. In fact, we were in the same row as all of the lighting and sound equipment, so we had the ideal view of the stage. (We really did, especially me by the aisle. Woo hoo! – Librarian)

We’d made 3 signs–the original “Keep Shineing Crystal” which was not featured on the show (too bad I couldn’t slip a misspelling by them–everyone else did), and at lunch we made an orange one that said “Gen X Mom’s only have (picture of eyes) for DeWyze” (the extra apostrophe is intentional) and another green one. The Librarian sat on the aisle with the orange sign and held it up at every opportunity, which turned out to be quite helpful watching the show later. Although the sign was never featured, I could pick us out of every audience shot in our direction because of the neon orange sign.

No, MY sign is better!


I couldn’t make out the words on the sign when I watched on tv, but I could totally see the picture of the eyes that Diana drew for us. She’s talented that way. So the sign proved useful for spotting our location in the audience. In that sense, my sign kicked butt over Scriv’s Crystal one. (Diana was less enthusiastic about holding up her sign than either I or the Librarian were – Scriv)


Once the show started, things moved very, very quickly. It was almost disturbing the way the entire thing ran. It was completely mechanical. I mean obviously they’ve been doing this for almost a decade, but it seemed completely robotic at times, and it was almost disorienting. The performer would run onto stage (literally, run), set up, get introduced, play, four quick comments from the judges, BAM–commercial and the performer ran off the stage again.

And I gotta say, the commercial breaks are a LOT longer at home than they are in the theater.

The performances were awesome, however. My ears are still ringing.


The Librarian and her sign

I wanted them to do more for the audience. The lame warm-up guy was hard to hear and spot. Once he came up our aisle, offering free t-shirts. I waved my sign and did my best impression of an excited 13-year-old girl but alas, I lost out to actual kids. Damn you Cory for favoring kids over me. I am just as worthy! (Scriv–I was irritated too, because the tickets said specifically that nobody under 12 would be allowed in and there were a ton of kids–the one who got the t-shirt said she was 10).

Loved the montage at the end but it took us a while to figure out that there was an actual live singer named Will Young on the stage. He was the first winner of American Idol’s British predecessor, Pop Idol. That was years ago, he should be a polished performer by now. On this night, he had no stage presence. If they are looking for him to breakthrough to American audiences, he’ll have to do better than that!

Finally, we saw the whole top 12 go up on stage. I could see the bright glow of Urban’s teeth even from across the room. I never thought he was one of the best singers but he sure is pretty.

The whole gang! Kelly, Librarian, Scriv, Diana

American Idol: Departure, Tickets, Lunch, Celebrities

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We left more or less when we wanted to, but there was tons of traffic. Luckily Kelly got there an hour earlier and gave the line control dude the Sad Face, so he let her keep her spot in line (more or less) while she waited for us to show up. Whilst waiting for us she talked to people who were from Nebraska and Maine just for AI and were surprised that they might not get tickets (they did). And some women who mistakenly didn’t realize they were only seeing the rehearsal show.
American Idol Fans

American Idol fans

Moraga Moms

Moraga Moms in line with us

We scored tickets in row T, orchestra!

Lunch and a couple of beers at the Yard House

Lunch and a couple of beers at the Yard House.

Making two more grammatically incorrect signs. Look for us! We’ll have to ditch the electronics to go into the theater soon.

Lots of AI contestants
Justin Guarini, Brooke White, Big Mike, Allison Iraheta, Elliott Yamin

American Idol: How Did We Get Tickets?

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Yes, you read that correctly! On Tuesday, The Scrivener and The Librarian are going to see the final performance show of American Idol.

Of course you’re jealous. You should be.

I’m jealous of myself.

So I’ll answer the obvious question first–how did you get tickets? Tickets for American Idol (and several other shows including So You Think You Can Dance and Dancing With The Stars) are available through On Camera Audiences. Incidentally, if you’re on vacation in Los Angeles and want something fun and authentic to do, attend the taping of a tv show!

Popular shows like American Idol have a waiting list on OCATV, so you just put your email address into the waiting list and, well, wait. And wait. And wait. And wait. If I remember correctly, I put my name in for American Idol in September. Once your name comes up to the top of the list, OCATV sends you an email with a link to print out a voucher for the show. The trick is–the email comes roughly the Wednesday before the Tuesday taping, and if you miss it, you get put back at the end of the line. That’s what happened to me at So You Think You Can Dance last season.

When you click your link, you get a voucher for up to 4 tickets. There are more vouchers than seats, so you then have to show up at the studio and wait in line and seats are given out first-come, first-served. There is a strict dress code (or as the extensive single-spaced email says, DRESS CODE IN EFFECT! YOUR ADMITTANCE DEPENDS ON IT) (seriously, they put it in all caps like that, so it must be REALLY IMPORTANT) which basically involves dressing “hip and upscale” or “like you’re going out for a nice dinner.” Apparently the only people who get to wear the homemade “I love so-and-so” t-shirts emblazened with photos are the friends and family members.

I’m wearing a coral-colored spring dress I bought for my cousin’s wedding. Cause I know you were wondering.

Ryan Seacrest, you irritate the crap out of me

So Tuesday morning, the Librarian and I will join my young, hip friends Diana and Kelly to see American Idol. The email indicated that I could get vouchers for the finale show on Wednesday OR the rehearsal of the finale show, which is all of the performers from the finale “including Ryan Seacrest” as if that were some kind of draw (Ryan Seacrest is my least favorite part of AI) OR the contestant performance show (live) with the judge’s comments. I decided on the performance show, and it’s a good thing I made a quick decision because shortly afterwards, all the vouchers were gone.

My friend Kelly desperately wants to bring a sign, which,according to the single-spaced email should be NO BIGGER THAN 3 X 4 AND NO LOGOS OR ADS (so much for my big plug for Gen X Moms). I’m torn. What should said sign say? Kelly insists that whatever it says, it needs to include some kind of egregious grammatical error, like:



or the old standby, CRYSTAL, YOUR THE BEST

So what about you, blog readers? Are you on Team Crystal or Team Lee? If you could bring a sign, what would it say?

And keep an eye on this space for a full report after we get back home!

Who will it be?

The Scrivener

Gen X Glee

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The Moms agree that there have to be some serious Gen Xers behind the scenes of Glee, and this week’s episode (May 18th) was proof positive if ever proof was needed. And if you need proof, I am here to provide it for you. Because I took notes.

Yeah, I actually took notes.

Shut up.

As a reminder, Generation X is defined as the generation of people born between 1965 and 1980. If you think you might be a Gen X Mom, go ahead and take our “Are You a Gen X Mom?” quiz and see how you do. Of course a 15-year span for a “generation” includes a wide variety of people, but essentially, Gen Xers came of age in the 80s. It was a decade of great fashion, great hair, great movies, and great music. And something that great deserves to be celebrated by Glee.

Doogie Howser--blogging since 1989

This week’s episode could not possibly fail with a guest star like Neil Patrick Harris as school board member Bryan Ryan. What Gen Xer doesn’t think fondly of our favorite pint-sized doctor? NPH has gone on to do some awesome work since then, but we Gen Xers don’t forget our roots. He’ll always be part-Doogie to us.

And Dr. Horrible to many others. I’m sure the Dr. Horrible fans didn’t miss the scene with NPH in the “home ec” classroom that looked suspiciously like a chem lab.

Joss Whedon was this week’s director, which asks the chicken and the egg question–did Neil Patrick Harris bring in Joss Whedon, or did Joss Whedon bring in NPH? Either way, Joss is right on the cusp of Gen X himself, and his father was a writer for that 80s classic, Golden Girls, so he’s well-versed in the art form of the 80s.

At any rate, Gen Xers geared up for a Gleeful 80s episode were not disappointed. The flashback of Bryan Ryan and Mr. Shue in high school with mullets, braces, and Bill Cosby-esque sweaters was delightful, not to mention when they shared a beer at the bar and belted out a fabulous duo of “Piano Man.” What Gen Xer doesn’t love the smooth stylings of 70s and 80s superstar Billy Joel?

Tell me you didn’t cringe and laugh at the same time when Bryan pulled out jeans jackets with rhinestones and declared them to be “Rad!” The cringing was because I used to own a jeans jacket–no, mine didn’t have rhinestones, but it was Guess brand. And nobody dressed the 80s like Guess jeans.

June 15th--mark your calendars

Incidentally, I’ve always felt a special kinship with Neil Patrick Harris because he and I share the same birthday, right down to the year. Yes, apparently June 15, 1973 was a magical day for the world, as both I and NPH were brought into it. I was a bit dismayed at Glee when Mr. Shue mentioned “Sectionals 1992,” since I know for a fact that unless he was held back a year, Neil Patrick Harris graduated with the class of 1991. And nobody held Doogie Howser back in school, but I’ll let that slide because I like Glee so much.

As usual, the Glee musical numbers were amazing. The highlight for Gen Xers was definitely Artie’s rendition of the Safety Dance. Sure it was the one song that didn’t feature the week’s theme of “dreams,” but it definitely fit the week’s theme of “totally effin’ radical to the max!”

And speak of awesome to the max–Dream On? Words cannot describe the epic moment of that number.

Moving to Rachel’s corner, musical theater in the 80s were defined by three mega-hits. Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Cats (1982) and Phantom of the Opera (1986) and right there in the middle of the decade, 1985, Les Miserables. And it was right there from the libretto of Les Mis where we heard the haunting and deeply emotional “I Dreamed A Dream” (I cried. And cried.). In addition to being a touching moment, it was also a classic Gen X moment.

Ladies and Gentlemen, keep an eye out for upcoming songs from Cats and Phantom. The Scriv called it first here on Gen X Moms.

Jesse, meet Westley

And any tribute to the 80s would be remiss without mentioning the best movie of all time, ever: The Princess Bride. Yes, I can quote the whole movie. Can’t you? Now as soon as Jesse St. James popped up on screen I’ve been saying, “He looks just like Cary Elwes!” Mr. Elwes, of course, played Westley in the Princess Bride. Although Train Guy keeps looking at me skeptically every time I say it, there is an uncanny resemblence between Westley and Jesse St. James. It’s not just in the face, but in the mannerisms as well. Seriously–watch your copy of The Princess Bride (OMG BLU-RAY!!!) and tell me you don’t see the similarity.

And maybe this one’s a stretch, but check out the scene in the library where Rachel is making the argument for Patti LuPone being her mother. She shows a flyer with Patti performing with Mandy Pantinkin. You probably best know Mandy Patinkin as Inigo Montoya.

You killed his father. Prepare to die.

Inigo Montoya wants YOU to become a Gleek

Yes folks, Glee has got Generation X written all over it. Watch for it!

The Scrivener